“The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious, it is the source of all true art and science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger who can no longer pause and wrap in awe is as good as dead. His eyes are closed.”

-Albert Einstein

Welcome to My World

“Wisdom is knowledge gained through experience.”

(F)ocus.(A)lign.(C)ommit.(E)xecute

Self-ish Lifestyle is where I teach you how to F.A.C.E. your situation by Focusing your mind, Align your four bodies (mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual), Commit to your self-development, and Execute specific techniques with the highest and best energy you have now attained after the session. You will leave with an expanded awareness of your(SELF) and the world around you.

My name is Krista Nerestant, NLP coach & Spiritual Medium, and after 18 years in the field of beauty, running my own hair salon, Salon Crimson, I’ve finally come out of the Spiritual closet!

My psychic gifts first revealed themselves to me at the young age of seven. Like most, I hid them very well through rational thinking and objectivity. As the years passed, the visions and feelings intensified through every experience, leading me to finally accept my gifts-it was time to nurture them, instead of hiding them. That is exactly what the Self-ish Lifestyle is about. You are not alone in your journey.

In addition, I host a biweekly podcast, www.selfcaretuesdays.com a board of member of Save the Essex, Motivational Speaker and member of Latina Surge, MFONJ, Writers Circle and MWG. Currently, I am writing a book set for publication mid 2019 titled Survival Mode – Child abuse, traumas and how I healed by tapping into the sixth senses. I AM: Wife, Mother, Sister, Friend, Entrepreneur and most importantly an Empowered Woman.

Self.ish Inspirations

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Happy Sunday!! ⭐️Everyone has a purpose. Whether it is to be a great parent, educator, caretaker, etc or maybe a global purpose such as your Oprahs, Ellens , Elon Musks, and many more🙌🏼One of the the reasons we may be unhinged or unfulfilled is because we aren't living to our full potential😩. When we deny ourselves the actionable steps towards this soul contract, you in turn deny yourself the happiness your higher-self knows it deserves (not the ego) 🤗Every day set an intention and fulfill it✨You may surprise yourself in how far you've come in just a month💖✨💖 #selfishlifestyletherapy #rootingforyou#soulpurpose #hereifyouneedme #imonthisjourneywithyou #lifepurpose #careertransitions #life #fulfillment #blessings

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what people say

Kind words from a few special people I've worked with to date.

I could describe Krista in one phrase it would be glass-shatteringly life changing. She is the REAL deal, and absolutely phenomenal with what she can do with her gifts. Ever since my grandfather passed away five years ago, I have been looking for a way to reconnect with him, and for the validity that the signs he was sending me were actually real. For years I tried to find someone who could give me the answers I was looking for, and after numerous attempts and schedule conflicts, I never found anyone. It wasn't until one brunch date with a good friend that I learned about Krista and the impact she has made on so many people. I knew right then and there that I had to go and see her, and I did, not even a week after that brunch.

Krista didn't know a thing about me except my first name and that I wanted to connect with a loved one. When I say that she was SO on point with everything she said to me during our session, I mean that whole-heartedly! From connecting to my grandfather and my other spirit guides, to describing the type of person I am, to my career and where I am now in my life, to my future goals and aspirations, to the aspects in my life that need adjusting, I mean she hit the nail on the head with every. single. detail!!!! I left her salon feeling like a brand new person with an even better outlook on life that I previously had, and I like to think that I'm a pretty optimistic person. I cannot say enough good things about her! She even sent me home with lots of homework, and I thought I was the teacher! ;) Krista is truly gifted and amazingly talented at what she is able to do in just a short amount of time. I have recommended my close friends to her, and I will continue to do so because she is absolutely remarkable!

- Nicole

Though I knew of her spunky personality I would've never thought she would be the one I would turn to for all things positive! Krista made my first ever Angel reading experience a complete success. While I have always been spiritual, I never heard of "angel readings."

The moment I walked into Krista's space after a not so wonderful day, I felt a sense of calmness. She thoroughly explained what the reading entailed and made me feel super comfortable. It was the most centering experience I ever had. As soon as I sat down, I knew I was meant to be there at that very moment, so much that I started to cry and didn't know why! Krista assured me it was completely normal. I didn't say a word to her about the many occurrences in my life but I didn't have to, she knew. Everything she expressed was RIGHT ON.

I'm usually the person that would say, "Oh please, that's BS," but so not the case with Krista. Since my first visit (there have been many more since then), my heart feels lighter, my vibes always positive, and my spirituality truly indescribable. Thank you Krista for being such a beautiful & positive light!

- Jenny

Krista was amazing. It was my first time ever going to a medium. So I really didn't know what to expect, but Krista explained the whole process to me and what exactly it is that she does. I was a little nervous, but she assured me everything was going to be just fine. I can honestly say my first session with her was great. I left feeling lighter and less stressed. I was able to see things in a different perspective and felt much better. I will definitely be going back for more sessions! - Jacqueline

I want to start off by sharing that I was truly a skeptic before meeting Krista. I grew up agnostic and never gave any thought to a spiritual realm existing. My mom passed away recently and Krista was referred to me through a friend after a series of strange coincidences occurred. I decided to connect with Krista, mostly out of curiosity and was not sure what to expect. Immediately upon meeting Krista, I knew I’d love her – she was warm, hilarious, genuine and honest. Krista’s words, advice and insight were life-changing. She connected with my mom’s spirit/energy, captured her personality perfectly in what she relayed to me and even shared some aspects of my relationship with my mom that I never shared with anyone. I highly recommend booking a session with her! For the first time in weeks, I felt a comforting peace and renewed sense of hope. Her gift is absolutely touching and incredible. - Princess